To a man who had baggage and myself as well. I am in the same boat as you with the same age difference. Right now we have that but who knows what a move would bring? I love him, but because of our age difference and that fact that I'm not interested in being a stepmother to his girls, I don't think we'll ever get married… not to say we won't be together for a long time, because this is the best relationship I've been in. Anonymous Beckbee, 17 years older then you and you are already 31? I really like this guy, and what he has to offer is what I really was wanting with the guy I had previously dated. Anonymous Okay so I love this post! He's 14, fifteen in just under a month. I'm happy to see 15 + year age gaps, I am not alone in pursuing the older man.
I know I am crazy… Someone needs to help me. Which by the way, I grew up riding and showing. All she could offer was companionship. Even if my boyfriend was 10 years younger, things might have been totally different. I wish the country would pay more attention to the corruption of the family law system and the radical statutes being imposed upon an unsuspecting public. We have never had a serious argument or meltdown. To my way of thinking there are three good reasons why a young woman should date older men; 1 adoration, to a young man you're just one of many, but to an older man you're a rare and beautiful breath of fresh air.
He's truly understanding and appreciates me. He is, by far, the most romantic, spontaneous man I've ever dated. He was 21 when we dated and I was 26. I take alot of time up with them treat them as they were my own. She was shocked and could not figure out how I found the address and pulled it off.
It all comes down to the fact that. Their relationship will always be more important to him than I ever could have been. Not that i need financial support. Do you think I should pursue him gradually over time until I am older and more sure of myself? I would really love to believe in this, but the realist in me keeps shaking off all fantasies of a future together. It was bound to break and collapse. Even something simple like a can turn into a fight.
But he would never date me cuz of the age difference. You are trying to constantly prove to others that i have done this, i have done that. If it feels good and neither is committing adultery, why not see where the desires of Life takes you. If I continue this relationship despite my mother's wishes I am afraid it will drastically change my relationship with my mother…and not in a good way. Anonymous People are placed in our life paths for a reason.
Why add to the challenges by marrying someone as old as your father? Every morning we text good morning, every night goodnight and he calls me beautiful. I'm 22 and i'm in love with a 16 year old. It was interesting to read about though! Anonymous Here goes, I just turned 50 and tomorrow, I will be going out on a lunch date with a 31 year old, he's 19 years my junior! Like my bf is 6 years younger than me but he looks older than me cause of our difference race. In either case it is always a woman who has a strong sense of self and a high regard for her own value. By: Skylar Jones When I was younger I would have gagged if you had told me that I would fall in love with someone significantly older. But nonetheless, it was the loveliest encounter. I hate that it is weird for me.
Anonymous I have the same age gap with my mate and he is healthy and a young 63 with teenagers because he didn't have children until he was 43. With that said here is my story. What made him interested in you? Its a scary situation to be in. He acts an complete fool whenever I am out of his sight…. He is telling you this because it keeps him safe…he has an easy way out if needed.
. As for my step-father he keeps telling me no, that he will never accept him. I feel like I've found my soul mate. He never looks twice or stares at a pretty woman in my presence. It was rather difficult to read.